Are You Being Cheated On - And Don't Even Know It?
How to know if you are being cheated on?
Here is a question for you...
Have you ever noticed that when it comes to OTHER peoples relationships, everyone suddenly turns into Dick Tracy?
Just tell them what's going on in someone else's relationship and they will just roll their eyes and say "well she's cheating on him" or "he's running around on her".
A funny thing happens though when it comes to your own relationships. People go from being "super detective" to being deaf, dumb and blind.
The reason for this is they lack OBJECTIVITY and don’t want to face the hurt associated with knowing the truth.
They cannot look at their own relationships with any objectivity. They can spot someone else cheating from a mile away, but can't do the same with their own relationship.
And this is the third notorious mistake people make when they think they're being cheated on.
You absolutely must mentally remove yourself from your relationship, examine the facts, and sum everything up from there.
This is also known as becoming “emotionally detached”.
Let’s put it this way.
Think back to a really happy period in your life – a time where a lot of things seemed to be going right.
Now, if during that time one of your friends had come to you to "lean on your shoulder" about some relationship problems they were having (and as it turns out their problems are identical to what you're now going through), what would your thoughts have been?
Not what your thoughts are right now when you think your spouse is cheating, but what would your thoughts have been about this during that happy period in your life.
You probably would have a different opinion about your relationship back then than you do now.
You see, right now you don't have any clarity or any objectivity.
But you need to get objectivity right now -- and really bad.
Try to look at your relationship as if it were someone else's relationship. It's not easy to do, but everyone has the ability to do it.
Do it and you'll probably be surprised at what you are able to see.
In summary, how to know if you are being cheated on – OBJECTIVITY.
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