How People Get Away With Infidelity
Let's not waste any time here.
So here it goes.
One word.
MANIPULATION.
When people think they are being cheated on one of the biggest mistakes they make is allowing themselves to be manipulated.
Being manipulated is where you start to think that you're being cheated on, but your spouse of lover convinces you that you're not.
The think to know is that men and women manipulate differently.
Women manipulate men physically.
They do this by using their bodies (think SEX here).
A woman can pretty much get a man to think or do anything they want by offering sex, or at least physical contact.
For example, if you are a man and your woman starts to think that you're "catching on" to what she's doing behind your back, she'll offer herself physically as a method of changing your mind.
Maybe she'll have sex with you or let you put your arm around her. Maybe it will be just a touch while she's sitting next to you on the couch watching TV.
In some way, she'll offer you some sort of physical interaction that will make you think "gee, maybe she really isn't cheating on me".
If you're a man, remember this....women control almost all physical encounters.
After all, if a woman says "NO", it's rape.
The same rules don't apply to men.
Now on the other side of the coin, men will manipulate the woman by EMOTION.
A man can get a woman to think or do whatever he wants by pretty much just saying what she wants to hear (or performing some little romantic trick like sending her flowers).
He can sweep her off her feet with just two words.
A simple "I love you" or "you are everything I've ever wanted and more" can emotionally melt most women.
So these are the things you need to watch out for.
If you think your lover is cheating on you, and then all of a sudden they do something "to make everything all right", you my friend have just been manipulated.
I know of men (who's wives or girlfriends were cheating on them) who bought expensive jewelry for their woman just because she provided some type of physical contact.
I know of women (who's husbands or boyfriends were cheating on them) who dropped the whole notion of infidelity just because they received and unexpected gift of flowers or found a loving message left on their answering machine.
You should be completely aware of manipulation like this in your relationship.
If you've been emotionally abused or physically neglected for a time, and then all of a sudden something changes that makes you happy and relieved, odds are you're being manipulated.
Some women call this a "mercy ...".
Some men call this "throwing her off the trail".
Be careful that you are not letting your NEEDS open the door for your lover to keep cheating on you, undetected.
Manipulation is a very important key to be aware of and look out for.
If you're "starving" for something in your relationship and then all of a sudden you get "fed", well, there's a reason for that.
And that reason is that your lover may be thinking you're "on to them".
Manipulation is the FIRST thing they'll use to shutdown your suspicion.
Watch out for it and don't fall for it! Remember what was said here!
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